Speech

Irwanda Y Firmansyah

2012 0540 061

Assalamu’alaikum Wr. Wb.

Good morning ladies and gentlement?

On this occasion I would like to tell you about my juniors named Fulan. Fulan is a good student and diligent, but he is often the subject of bully because of his physical small, dark, and he is also a quiet boy.

One day, Fulan would like Friday prayers, because he lived in the boarding school, he must to queue up shower. When he had time to shower, he canceled to shower because he was preceded by his friend, but he can not take any action because of his little body.

The next day, Fulan looks very different, he no longer looks like a good student and diligent as ever, but like a child who is depressed with the environment. Finally Fulan felt that he was very depressed with the environment.

Since then Fulan began to feel restless and have low self-esteem, but Fulan keep their daily lives as normal until one night. he was vilified stole his friend's mobile phone. Can you imagine how it feels after bullied and isolated, suddenly, vilified as the thief. Fulan at that time did not know anything and just accept it, even though in the end he only judged by his friends.

Until the final exam grade increase, Fulan apparently knows the actual incident. Apparently people who slandered the time it was a friend who has always asked for a cheat sheet during the exam. Fulan at that time was very angry and uncontrollable emotions. Unintentionally Fulan thought about to kill his friend, and it turns out he managed to do it at night when all his friends were asleep.

From this story we can see how someone took the option when he was in a state of emotion that is beyond control. That action will be taken by a child when she was tired of the bully that during this action he received. for this time I would like to discuss some of the reasons why bullying should be stopped.

First, the impact of bullying on children is he going to feel restless, alone, and have low self-esteem. For children who are not strong with this condition, then he will experience depression, running away from home, even suicide. all it is a symptom resulting psikomatik he can not socialize well.

Secondly, the impact will be more severe bully when the child had was a teenager, because he will be to fight and he will also experience physical health complaints are usually caused by alcohol and drugs.

Third, the impact on the bullies usually are children and adolescents who frequently bully are more likely to get into fights, vandalize and steal property, drink alcohol, smoke, and too often skipped school, even dropping out of school, and worse they carry guns. In one study, 60% of those who oppressed have at least one criminal conviction by the age of 24.1 years

In conclution, for parents, brother, and anyone you care about. Pay attention to these people, and we were supposed to lead must know many things about all of this. because if not, we indirectly it will go into class bullies. Remember! bullying can not be stopped by force.

~ L ~